You Can Only Have One Position…
Anon asked:
You can only have sex in one position for the rest of your life: which is it and why?
I know I’m going to sound SUPER boring when I say this, but I’m a big fan of the missionary position — and there are many, many reasons why I like it so much.
Firstly, it’s so “tweakable”. With a simple shift of a limb, the missionary position goes from being boring to … well, definitely not boring. I can throw one of my legs over his shoulder to liven things up in a flash, or even both legs if I’m feeling super flexible that day. If I lower my knees out to the side a little, he gets a great view of my cunt and I get the opportunity to reach my hands down in between my legs and help get me to orgasm faster. The addition of a silk scarf, handcuffs, or a length of rough rope soon throws a little something-something to the mix, and you can always go down the route of a blindfold to help take away one of your senses and heighten all of the others.
Secondly, for me, the missionary position is one of those fail-safe positions that makes first-time fucks a little easier. Again, for me, it’s one of the few positions that doesn’t make me feel completely exposed, allowing me to get a little more comfortable and have a lot more fun. If I’m on top, riding, I have to worry about sucking my gut in and making my arms look longer and hoping my tits are perky.
On the bottom, in the missionary position, a lot of those worries are taken away. He can’t see my stretch marks or cellulite, and my gut looks flatter when I’m lying on my back. Starting things off in the missionary position always helps to ease me into the situation. By the time we get to rolling around and changing things around, I’m often too turned on to care about all the body hang-ups I had before.
Thirdly, some of the best fucks of my life have been in the missionary position. When I look back over my ‘relationship’ with the position, I do so with a beaming smile across my face. I remember missionary position sex in my marital bed (actually with my husband this time) and coming so hard that I gushed and left an almighty wet patch that we lazily, and drunkenly fell asleep in. My Mr. Grey was a big fan of the missionary position too, although his version often involved restraints of some sort, alongside a vast array of toys and other sex accessories. And I can’t even begin to tell you about all the times Big Love and I had MIND-BLOWING missionary position sex in various places across The Other Side of the World and The War Zone.
And fourthly, this is the real reason why I love missionary position so much: because it just feels so fucking good. There’s something about having full skin-on-skin contact, especially on hot and sweater summer evenings, that drives me crazy — and you can kiss your partner properly which makes it so much better. Kissing deeply, passionately, with hands running through hair and mouths almost painfully clashing together … heavenly. Just fucking heavenly.
So, yeah, if I could only have sex in ONE position for the rest of my life, missionary position would be it.
What about yours … ?
Fancy reading another Curious Cat question?
How about this one: Where is your preferred spot to take your man’s cum?
